Heart Attack's

2013年2月17日星期日

Time Flies or Valentine...?

Arab foods as our first valentine's lunch! It tastes so good! :D
 
 Happy Valentine's day & Happy Third month anniversary.

This is how we began our relationship. <3
Things might not be easy for us both, even though we already knew it from the beginning, but i still appreciate having you in my life. Thanks for going through everything with me, no matter if it's good or bad. I love you baby. I hope we can remain as sweet as always.

时间飞逝啊!农历新年就这样过了。今年的新年真的比往年平静很多,来拜年的亲戚很少,要拜年的对象也很少,更别说到朋友家拜年了,很久都没有了。
最近心情真的很差很郁闷。。我以前认为部落格是我唯一能倾诉的对象,但后来发现小人到处可见,现在也不再把心事写在部落格了。我以前总是把解决不了的烦恼一直干烦,也不会想想先把问题搁在一边,就这样一直折磨自己。现在我想通了,先把能解决的解决掉,不能解决的就让它顺其自然吧!反正问题也不会因为你烦恼而消失。
有时候我在想,为什么感情和思维可以这么的复杂,可却一个字也写不出?是厌倦了平淡了不想说了,还是 不知从何说起?能说的话越来越少,能谈心的人也越来越少。是别人无法了解我,还是我没有办法让人了解?

2013年2月6日星期三

Cats and Dogs: Happily Ever After?


Does your dog like to chase your cat? If so, your cat probably isn't crazy about this arrangement. And the last thing you need around the holidays is your pets fighting like, well...cats and dogs. Even though both species think themselves to be predators, dogs often consider cats their prey.

Here are four easy ways to keep the peace in your mixed-species household:

When you can't supervise, separate your dog from your cat with a door or gate. This will protect your cat from injury and block your dog from engaging in the unwanted chasing behavior.When you are around, make sure to let your dog know chasing is unacceptable every time he engages in the behavior. A strong and simple "No!" is a good start.

Reprogram your dog's desire to chase small moving animals by putting him on a leash when your cat enters the room. As soon as your dog notices the cat, begin feeding him pieces of a high-quality treat like boiled chicken. Keep feeding your dog as long as your cat is visible, but keep him on-leash. Your dog will eventually associate  the cat entering the room with your feeding him treats, so he will come to you rather than focusing on your cat. After a while, you can even test this process without a leash. You may also need to condition your cat to be calmer in the presence of your dog!

Stay positive by using a familiar command rather than yelling. Or, you can teach your dog a basic emergency "pause" cue like "Stop!". If you teach the cue as a game, associating it with a yummy treat, you can make your dog stop his behavior long enough for your cat to safely escape.

Keep cats indoors so that your dog has less space to chase. It's also hard for dogs to tell the difference between a squirrel, rabbit or cat when they are playing outdoors. If your cat reacts badly to the indoor lifestyle, consider building her a screened-in enclosure.

These methods, along with some patience and compassion, will help you make your home a place where cats and dogs live happily ever after.