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2015年6月21日星期日

绑牙记!D:

最近朋友介绍阿妹的这首“爱情血腥故事”,好喜欢!所以故事开始前分享一下。 :)


算一算,原来已经八个月没有在写博客了。为什么现在又想写了?来,坐下,听我说故事。

好久好久以前,左边的一颗大牙痛得我... ...痛不欲生,食不下咽,辗转难眠...
看了好几次牙医一直犹豫不决,因为牙医说,拔了的话,空隙很大,其他牙齿在不久的将来有机会移位。不然就是做根管治疗,那时我才多大,哪有这样的财力去支付?所以鲁莽又受不了痛楚的我做了这个选择——拔牙。

好几个月前,右边的一颗大牙发生了一样的事件,这次不需要医生怎么说其实我已经心里有数。我不可以这么年轻就没了两颗大牙,对不?我可是一位吃货。不过我还是去看了牙医,期盼会有什么希望。
除了拔牙和根管治疗,这位牙医也告诉我或许我可以连这颗也拔了然后做牙齿矫正,一来好看二来可以填补空缺。
可牙齿矫正也好贵啊!所以我暂时搁置了牙齿矫正的念头。

由于费用昂贵,我寻遍大江南北,几乎所有牙医诊所收费都不相上下,没有最贵只有更贵。在逼不得已的情况下,毅然去排了政府医院。不出我所料,就知道不会有这么好康的是(又快又便宜)。
政府牙医随便在我的嘴里看看上看看下,也没说什么,所以我就自动自发说了我的事情经过,她说可以做,等电话咯!有了位子给你就替你做预约。我本来就是个没耐性的人,所以我就问了要等多久,她说她也不清楚,快的话一年半载,慢的话... ...
等了快两个月了,别说预约了,电话也不曾打过来。

疼痛已经把我推向疯狂,我必须赶快做决定!

为了省去根管治疗的费用也可以让我的牙齿变美,所以我决定绑牙!
一位在马六甲政府医院做牙医的朋友劝我先去Orthodontist specialist检查比较好。所以我就预约了一家位于Berjaya Time Square的牙医诊所做免费咨询——(WhiteSmile Orthodontic Dental Braces Clinic)。
不得不称赞一下,这位Dr. Reuben牙医真的态度好好,手势温柔、文质彬彬、耐性也不厌其烦地和我解释。
专科嘛!费用肯定让人眼前一亮,但好在都是可以分期付款的。但打工一族的我还是尝试央求牙医有没有可负担的计划,牙医就问我今年多大?可能看在我还是学生年纪所以就给了我学生价钱,但那还是我负担不起的... ...
左边的大牙不是说拔了对吗?所已遗留了一个很大的空位。Dr. Reuben说我上排牙齿无需拔牙,下排牙齿他也可以尽量帮我把遗留的缝隙缩小或完全闭合,可是需要很多时间的耐性。
(不需要拔牙对我来说是天的好事,让我欣喜若狂,更期待绑牙的Journey!)

上一段不是说了负担不起吗?所以后来就去到我家附近的Ong Dental做了牙齿矫正。

好消息是费用是我可以负担的,但就是这诊所不知道是太出名还是什么的,几乎每一天都是排场龙。不要怀疑,这绝对是排场龙!
第一次去做检查的时候,我七点多抵达开始排队已经在很后面了,到了写名字(类似号码牌)我已经是第二十五个了。护士小姐让我回家等或是外出吃东西再回来,因为要等超级无敌久。本来不相信,怎么轮到我的时候已经是十一点半了...

废话少说了,进入正题吧!

上个星期六做了牙模和X-Ray,牙医什么都没说就懵懵懂懂的被“推”了出手术室,然后柜台的护士小姐替我做了Coming monday的预约做绑牙。
有点无言对吧?不是应该先解释一下或什么的吗?没关系,星期一再问咯。
星期一本来是九点半的预约,由于当天也是超级无敌多人所以到了十点半才到我。
和我想象的一样,牙医虽然看起来很好笑容和亲切可是他的身体语言告诉“你问完了吗?你是做还是不做?我很忙!没看到外面还有很多Patient吗?”......

其实我准备了差不多一页的问题要问,毕竟这对我来说是大事。结果牙医就很粗略又迅速告诉了我的情况。他说无法替我闭合那个遗留的空隙,而且要拔三颗牙,而且不能拔掉右变的大牙,因为人的大牙占了八十八仙的咬力,我已经没了一颗,再没了这颗就... ...
Okay, fine, it just mean that i have to Root Canal Treatment and Braces at the same time... 有得选吗?没,所以只好顺从。

解释完了也就冲冲忙忙被护士推了出手术室说是让我挑材料,我再想...该不会事挑了又叫我回家,下个星期再来吧?幸好不是。挑了,再等不知道多久又轮到我进手术事了。

牙医替我粗略的洗了牙之后就帮我把brackets粘在牙齿上。然后让护士小姐替我把wires放进去... ...等一个不知道多久牙医又回来了,帮我做根管治疗。他在帮我打了麻醉药后立刻在我的大牙砖洞、放药、填补之类的... 
那个声音和感觉让我不断鸡皮疙瘩,砖到底的时候那种痛...撕心裂肺的痛...我的眼泪直流,,一直哭,全身不自觉地一直发抖...
完事后,牙医拿了棉花替我擦眼泪。至少这一动作让我倍感温馨,不然会觉得被人上了然后丢一边去。

然后去到柜台,护士小姐给了药,让我习惯这个braces后就要回来拔牙。

其实绑牙前已经在网上做了超级无敌多的资料搜索,好的不好的评论一堆的,但收藏了几个Positive的绑牙经历分享。

人们说绑的时候不痛,几小时后就会很痛。回到家后,我一直在等,等那个痛觉,可是等着等着我就睡着了,醒来的时候感觉...咦?不是说会很痛很紧?为什么我没感觉... 除了无力感,吃不了硬食之外,一切都还好。

第二天,第三天... ... 除了我的嘴里都被Brackets磨出了ulcer,嘴唇很干之外,其实都还好,我还能习惯,不算痛不欲生。只是身为吃货的我因为无法食用美食而觉得很难过。
(牙医附上Wax给我,要把wax涂在摩擦到嘴的地方,这样就不会继续痛。第一次用的时候我还不小心吞了...)

第四天,我的噩梦开始了...做了根管治疗的那颗大牙开始隐隐作痛(这时牙医给我的特强止痛药刚好服食完),整排牙齿都觉得痛,做了根管治疗的那一半口腔的牙齿都痛得...而且头痛欲裂也一起来!

好奇心超强的我又开始在网络找资料。
很多人说做了根管治疗的牙齿:
  • 要做牙冠不然咬到硬的东西会龟裂
  • 因为牙神经已死,得不到血液和营养的牙齿迟早会牙脚松了而脱落
  • 如果选择做牙冠,必须把两侧的牙齿磨小一些,但磨小的牙齿会因为没了保护膜,在不久的将来被细菌侵蚀
总结是做牙冠,会脱落,不做牙冠,也会脱落。本人是一位素食者,如要我小心不吃硬食的话不太难...

今天,这个星期六我回去复诊了(原本是必须把牙)。
由于太痛,要求牙医继续做第二次的根管治疗。(根管治疗必须提前预约)

  • 开始之前,我又一次问了牙医可否不拔牙?能不能几个月后再决定?他说,如果我坚持,可以,可是不要等太久,不能到时候牙齿稳固了,就很难再移位了。除非我不介意整排牙齿歪一边去...
  • 我又问,我做了资料搜索,做了RCT的牙齿迟早都是会掉是吗?他说不一定...
  • 我又问,真的无法闭合那个空隙吗?他不耐烦地说,或许可以,Maybe 10 years time? ....
然后牙医的身体语言又告诉我“你问完了吗?你是做还是不做?我很忙!没看到外面还有很多Patient吗?”然后又非常迅速地不知道对我的牙齿做了什么,痛得我"La埋一Gao"... 也做了根管治疗。然后牙医走一边去,护士也陆续走了,然后叫我起来,也没告诉我已经完成了。
所以我用讶异的语气问,牙齿拔了?!牙医说还没,下个星期回来才拔。语毕。我很无奈,为什么也不告诉我今天我们要做什么,事后也没交代什么!我就继续问,那请问RCT我还要回来几次?他说你的牙神经还没死,我们都还没正式开始呢!还要回来很多次。而且刚刚那个“不知道对我的牙齿做了什么”的痛在绑牙程序里只是小事呢!

我真心无语... 就算是便宜或者你忙,对于一个病人来说是不是应该更尽职一些,尝试解释一些什么?至少事前告诉我今天我们要进行什么吧?
去到柜台付钱才知道原来刚刚牙医替我塞了rubber band在三个位置(分别是,左上角、右上角还有左下角),但没人告诉我它的用途。只好回家后再上网找资料。

到家了,午睡起来,发觉左上角的rubber band不见了然后感觉有异物在嘴里,吐出来原来是rubber band!那另外一个呢?!显而易见,应该是睡觉的时候不小心吞了... 晚上刷牙的时候,刷着刷着,有掉了一个出来。打电话到诊所,护士小姐说是小事,下次回来拔牙的时候再叫一声牙医再放就好了,我再三确认不需要到回来吗?她说不需要,因为拔牙一次只拔一边,到时候可以再放橡胶圈。

现在,这种时候,我那颗该死的大牙还是一直隐隐作痛,害我头痛欲裂。除了这种痛,不能随心进食的痛让我很想放弃...可是Ta告诉我:"Every action has a consequence, After the struggle comes the reward. You will have to suffer first in order to get the benefit. Don't give up." 
我只好尝试继续向前走!期待我那排重生的牙齿!

故事就先分享到这里吧!迟点会尝试再更新。晚安 <3

2014年10月10日星期五

This is our break up song


By the grace of your lips
I have long searched happiness
And the love in our hearts
Shone away through the dark

But lately, lately, lately, lately I
Have felt an overwhelming need to cry
And maybe, maybe, maybe we can try
To make it right, oh, to make it right

This is our break up song,
But Can't we just get along
For the night?
Not a fight,
One last goodbye
But just a moment,
Let me hope and,
Baby, hold back, all the things we haven't said
Make love like we just met

By the way that you kiss,
I know it's over, yeah, all of this
And the one world, that we knew
Has broken in two

'Cause lately, lately, lately, lately I
Have felt again a change I can't deny
And, baby, baby, baby, if we try
We make it right, yeah, we make it right

This is our break up song,
But can't we just get along
For the night?
Not a fight,
One last goodbye
But just a moment
Let me hope and,
Baby, hold back all the things we haven't said
Make love like we just met

Oh, I'm gonna miss the way you held me in the morning
I'm gonna miss the future that we planned
The way we fought, the way we kissed
The heat inside, the tenderness
Love was our religion

This is our break up song,
But can't we just get along
For the night
In spite
Of the hurt we hide?
For old time's sake
Won't you just take
Me by the waist
Hold me underneath the sheets
Make love like our first week

This is our break up song
Can't we just get along
For the night?
Not a fight,
One last goodbye
But just a moment
Let me hope and,
Baby, hold back all the things we haven't said
Make love like we just met

2014年2月9日星期日

The Cove



The Cove is a 2009 documentary film that analyzes and questions dolphin hunting practices in Japan. It was awarded the Academy Award for Best Documentary Feature in 2010. The film is a call to action to halt mass dolphin kills, change Japanese fishing practices, and to inform and educate the public about the risks, and increasing hazard, of mercury poisoning from dolphin meat. The film is told from an ocean conservationist's point of view. The film highlights the fact that the number of dolphins killed in the Taiji dolphin drive hunting is several times greater than the number of whales killed in the Antarctic, and claims that 23,000 dolphins and porpoises are killed in Japan every year by the country's whaling industry. The migrating dolphins are herded into a cove where they are netted and killed by means of spears and knives over the side of small fishing boats. The film argues that dolphin hunting as practiced in Japan is unnecessary and cruel.

Since the film's release, The Cove has drawn controversy over neutrality, secret filming, and its portrayal of the Japanese people.

The film was directed by former National Geographic photographer Louie Psihoyos. Portions were filmed secretly during 2007 using underwater microphones and high-definition cameras disguised as rocks.

The documentary won the U.S. Audience Award at the 25th annual Sundance Film Festival in January 2009. It was selected out of the 879 submissions in the category.


Save Japan Dolphin. An Earth Island Institute Project:
http://www.savejapandolphins.org/

OPS: Inspiring people to Save the Ocean:
http://www.opsociety.org/

2013年11月24日星期日

I'm Back !

Have been months didn't update my blog since July. So, here i am.
You will never know how stress is reality until you start working. lol. I am now working as a customer service personnel, It's really a big challenge for me, according to "Customers are always right" i have deeply feelings about it. #Especially for Malaysian#. I have become so stress, upset even emotional keeps changing like the weather... but i'm glad i have managed control myself now. I learnt a lot from my work and also go through a lot of things that i never know before. Anyways, time flies isn't it?  December is coming soon and then Chinese New Year. Don't you guys think it's time to plan "what to do" & "something to achieve" on 2014?
# And guess what? I just celebrated our first anniversary with my Loved One <3 #


(my first anniversary's present :DDDDD)

*Here, a post want to share with you guys also i wish i could do that for my love.
Here are 49 Things That Girls Should Know About Guys. Read them carefully because these things can help you improve your relationships.

1. Guys aren’t psychiatrists, mind telling them what you mean?

2. Guys don’t like to be used as pawns in trying to make your friends jealous.

3. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. Better watch out girls.

4. The biggest turn on for guys are the girls who workout.

5. Girls who don’t want to listen to the truth shouldn’t be asking any questions.

6. Ending a heated conversation with “Fine” or “Whatever” isn’t considered acceptable.

7. If you want sex, just ask.

8. Don’t expect guys to say as many sweet things as they do in the movies. It takes 10couples to come up with one sweet thing that they put up in the movies.

9. Only models are able to carry off most of the stuff you see in fashion magazines.

10. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

11. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

12. Guys need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.

13. Guys don’t care about how gorgeous you are, it’s goodbye, adios, and sayonara if you’re being a bitch.

14. All guys are kinky and willing to try anything that you may enjoy, just let them know.

15. Guys are more emotional than you think. If they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer than you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

16. A guy would do just about anything to get you to notice him.

17. Guys do not look into minute detailing. So, if you gave up a quarter of an inch from your 20 inches long hair, don’t expect your guy to know that instantly.

18. Guys like porn!

19. Anything said six months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after seven days.

20. “The game is on” will be considered an acceptable excuse to postpone any serious conversations.

21. Cooking makes a girl all the more attractive.

22. You can’t get mad if your guy refuses to hook up your “ugly friend” with one of his good-looking friends.

23. Nothing you will ever do will entitle you to operate the remote control, unless operating means handing it to him.

24. The only thing left to be said after sex is “goodnight.”

25. Video games have helped men develop awesome finger skills that only encourage them to play more often.

26. Critiquing a man’s driving is outright unacceptable.

27. Guys’ night outs are sacred events. If you ask any question about it, you’ll be castigated.

28. Believe it or not, 99.5% of the time men honestly don’t mean to hurt you.

29. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

30. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest.

31. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

32. Don’t hold it against your guy if he starts to cry after a good sports movie, and was laughing outrageously last night when the two of you were watching an emotional drama saga.

33. Leaving a message like “You know what?! Mmm… Never mind…” would make a guy hanging on to that thought all day long and reach a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. Don’t ever do that!

34. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

35. Guys love you more than you love them.

36. No matter how much guys talk about hotness or sex appeal, personality is key.

37. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.

39. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

40. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

41. You like when your guy calls and asks you out for dinner and pays for you, right? Well yeah, guys like it once in a while too.

42. It’s natural for a guy’s eyes to wander.

43. It’s not that guys don’t want to make their girlfriends happy; it’s just that sometimes, they don’t know how.

44. A guy would give his right arm to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.

45. Not all guys are jerks. Just because one is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents all of them.

46. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he isn’t doing it all for sex. It means he likes you more than you can imagine.

47. Even if you dumped a guy months ago and he loved you, he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be to have you back in his life.

48. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

49. A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over novels and make-ups.

And another… 50th Thing Guys Wish Girls Knew was suggested is from my friend.
50. Don’t ever expect guys to put the toilet seat down; it’s not in their DNA!

2013年7月20日星期六

这就是真实的婚姻。

那年,妻子在外面遇見了一個人,是所謂異性知己,他差點兒成了她的外遇。他是一個很風趣、很有才情的男人。也許是他的婚姻太冷漠,也許是她的情感太寂寞,總之這個人給她帶來了特別新鮮感觉覺,就好像又重新有了戀愛的激情。過去的幾年裡,她不修邊幅、不愛出門,躺在沙發上可以一天不吃飯……遇見他之後她變了,她重新容光煥發……
老公似乎察覺到了妻子的變化,極其理智地問她:“你是不是在外面遇到欣賞你的人了?”
妻子點頭說是。
他很快回答說:“那是好事兒啊!但是要注意把握好‘度’。”
這一點都不像一個丈夫說的話。

妻子好奇:“怎麼把握度,發展到跟你離婚行不行?”

他說:“不行,要不我也不跟你廢話了。”
他補充說:“很多人都跟我們一樣,這就是婚姻。如果兩個人老有激情,就累死了。兩個人這麼熟悉了,不小心摸到對方跟摸到自己似的,還能有激情?所以,我們的婚姻沒有問題,是人們對婚姻的認識有問題,不成熟。現在你遇見這個人,他給了你新鮮感,你就覺得他好,我們倆不好。錯!如果你跟他結婚過上幾年,就會發現我倆的今天就是你們的明天,而且還不如。因為我們倆從一開始就沒隔著心,有了兒子,一起買了房子置了家,你和我,掙來的每一分錢都給了咱們兒子、咱們的家。你和他呢?從一開始就是兩家人,他有閨女你有兒子,誰都想多吃多占,永遠不均。有激情時,糊裡糊塗地過,激情沒了,對方就成了外人,到那時候,你就後悔了!所以,你要是覺得跟他一起更好,你就去吧。”

老公一席話,她猶如星湖灌頂。不知為什麼,當時她一把抱住他,緊緊地抱著,眼淚嘩一下流出來。從那以後,妻子再也沒說過離婚。婚姻其實本來就應該是平淡的,是一種合作關係,這種合作裡面更多的是責任和義務,別奢求有太多的浪漫,奢求太多了,人會變得挑剔,一挑剔起來,婚姻就不能長久。成熟的面對婚姻。解決問題!
太多的人經不起平淡的生活,脫離了生活的軌道,忽略了本有的責任。我想這應該是大多數人生活中都會遇到的問題吧,讓我們學著珍惜眼前人吧。

2013年6月15日星期六

岁月催人老。

还是老话一句,时间过得好快。
小学到中学,中学到出社会。一直以来都是奶奶在照顾我,现在还我照顾她了。
我周末休息,奶奶老了,开始需要我替她剪发,看着她的背影,看着她逐渐老去,一阵鼻酸。

我不知道该如何形容我对奶奶的感情,那种深刻的情感可比对自己的母亲更深,毕竟是奶奶一手把我带大的。给我吃最好的,给我用最好的,身为孩子的我该有的我都有了,甚至更多。奶奶教导我的我都铭记在心。我觉得我很善良,那也是因为奶奶一直都给我深刻温柔和善良的感觉。

一边替她剪发一边忍不住笑,我只学过洗头啊!没学过剪发,可是要奶奶剪后面的发尾已经变成让她更累的事情,只好硬着头皮做。后来奶奶投诉我替她剪了个椰壳头。我都快笑的飙泪了。剪完发尾,她就自己修前面的头发。

每个人都有惰性,当然我也有,可是只要是替奶奶做的我都不会觉得累。我好妒忌我爸爸,他比我拥有更多时间和奶奶相处,可是当我懂性的时候奶奶已经八十岁了。生老病死,我们都无可避免,唯有在还来得及的时候更加珍惜。

奶奶只要感觉不舒服或是累就会把“是时候要走了”这些画挂在嘴边,其实我很不喜欢,每次听她这么说,我都会偷偷难过和哭。我不想,我不要。她比我亲妈妈更亲,我怎么舍得离开她。

前阵子终于向奶奶坦白了。8个月前,奶奶坚决反对这段异族恋,可是当我一一解释后,奶奶知道他会是一个好人,最后也就欣然接受了。奶奶,你答应过我要等我结婚生子,你不可以这么快就离开我。我的事业生涯才刚开始,和男朋友也还是十划未有一撇,你要好好爱自己,照顾自己让自己健康。请给我更多时间去照顾你,爱护你。没有了你为我切的水果、没有了那种迫不及待想回家见你的感觉、没有你这位精神支柱,我没有办法想象我要怎么活下去。如果说恋母情结已经是极限,那我对你的爱更是深刻,我从小到大你都在我身边照顾我爱护我,没有你的教导,可能我会和街边那些坏孩子一样。谢谢你多年来的照顾,请,给我更多时间去孝顺你,我要你出席我未来的婚礼,看着我的孩子,让我的孩子也有机会孝顺你。





我的生日是来着的星期一。亲爱的带我去吃雪糕。:D
我们都不是富有人家所以两球costs20多块的雪糕对我们来说绝不便宜 lol
我刚开始都说不要因为觉得很浪费钱可是最后还是被他说服了。他还开玩笑说,仅此一次。
这是我第一次和男朋友度过的生日,他也是第一个会在我生日的时候这么用心的对待我。
我很爱他。能够牵着他的手带他回我家,分享我们一家人的快乐,是非常幸福的事。
**我和店员说,生日有没有折扣,她笑着说没有。可是后来就给了我一张满5个stamps的印花卡!我好开心!因为满20块只有一个stamp,问她有没有折扣,她说没有却给了我一个小惊喜。谢谢你,店员。我的生日你也为我增添了一点喜悦。


2013年5月6日星期一

Game started.

《游戏刚刚开始!》

亲爱的大马选民们,我跟大家一样,对这个结果感到很愤怒,但是在愤怒的人当中,有99%的人已经绝望,而我想跟大家说:你可以绝望,但是不要绝望得太早……

有几个理由,我们不应该绝望得太早,你看看有没有道理:
一个合法选出、被人民支持、受国际认同的政府,才是可以运作下去的(请看附图)。

1. 本届选举的政府,表面上是赢了,但是因为这是他们在【三不】操纵出来的结果(不公平、不公正、不公开),加上空运外劳、贿赂选票、停电补票等等,千千万万个选民自发性将他们的犯罪证据拍了下来,这些证据出现在多个不同的地方、不同的人身上,所以一条一条帐来算的话,这个政府的合法性,根本是有待质疑的!理论上是赢了,实际上是否真的合法?还是有待斟酌的。

2. 人民不支持的政府,能够运作下去吗?大家都不配合的话,政府如何运作下去?政府要人们往东,你偏偏往西;政府要人们往西,你偏偏往东,这政府能运作得下去吗?人民不配合,政府是运做不下去的,这是硬道理。

3. 国际社会不认可的政权,除非你能够做到闭关锁国,好像朝鲜一样自立门户,完全靠自己,不跟其他国家往来,否则这个政权是混不下去的。毕竟,在马来西亚国阵是老大,没错,但是来到国际社会,他也只是小弟而已,好像美国、英国、法国、中国这些才是大哥哥,没错吧?如果国际上的大哥哥,都不承认你这个政权,你要如何运作下去呢?你要进口,他们不卖给你;你要出口,他们不买你的,你混得下去吗?

现在我们把这三个合起来一起看:
一个政权,其合法性:内,受到自身的人民质疑;外,遭到国际的社会质疑;
内得不到人民的支持,外得不到国际的认可,这种政权,即便暂时登基,你觉得他又能横行到几时呢?

现在让我们做几个合理的假设(第二张附图):
1. 假设安华不是笨蛋
2. 假设安华在国际社会有些人脉、朋友
3. 假设本届马来西亚大选的不靠谱性已经到了全世界都在关注的地步

你觉得,一个不是笨蛋的安华,事先会不会就想到国阵会使出各种肮脏手段来获胜?
你觉得,一个在国际社会有朋友的安华,能不能多少拉点关系、同情票,让他们一起介入此事,向合法性待质疑的政权施压?
你觉得,我国大选有没有真的不靠谱到令全世界都瞠目结舌,匪夷所思的地步?想想那些大规模空运外劳并且派发身份证、贿赂选票、停电补票!有没有在哪个国家发生过?没有!我们马来西亚Boleh,我们是全世界第一个国家这样做的!如果国际社会觉得这个政权赢来太不靠谱了,以西方人那种有话直说的性格,你觉得他们会静静不反应,还是多少会些人会呛声、插手?

其实国阵会玩臭,是大家一开始就已经知道的,这点其实不意外。

现在重要的是:接下来安华会怎么玩?应该怎么玩?

如果安华不笨,他应该会利用自己的国际影响力(以前坐牢的时候被打到鼻青脸肿就引起了人权组织的关注),号召那些也看不过眼、看不下去的国家(我想总会有的吧,难道你认为所有国家都看得下去?),大家一起坐下来,喝杯茶,吃个包,大家商讨一下,要怎么样来收拾这个烂摊子?

现在表面上国阵是赢了选举,但是对内输了民心,对外输了舆情,这基本就是一个空壳政府,有名无实,不会有什么作为。所以接下来,你是要选择绝望?还是要选择追随安华,一起玩下去,直到玩出一个公正、公平、公开的民选政府为止?这就是你要好好选择的。

抱怨、愤怒、绝望,都是我们的权利,但是却无济于事。相反的,如果我们在这个危急存亡的关头,大家能够心连心,手牵手,力挺安华,寻求国际正义的援助,那这次大选,最后的结果鹿死谁手,还很难说!

你是觉得游戏已经结束了呢?还是觉得戏正上演,刚刚开始呢?这决定了你接下来,会活得更有力量,还是颓废沮丧!

如果你也觉得【游戏刚刚开始】,好戏还在后头,那你应该怎么做呢?

开始疯传这则信息吧,让我们一条一条挽回那些奄奄一息的灵魂,帮他们找回力量,然后我们重新凝聚在一起,坚定力挺安华,继续我们的 Ubah 大业!

Letters to Transparency International and United Nations about Fraud Voting Incident.

Ladies and gentlemen,

We are the citizens of Malaysia, and hereby we report onthe current pre-election situation to every one of the world. First andforemost, election is a democratic practice; it symbolizes the fair distributionof power which the Constitutional guarantees, hence allowing us to makedecisions about a country’s future and policies. This includes deciding thecountry’s ruling party, the members of parliament and by extension any possibleamendments to Constitution.

As many of you are aware, most democratic countriesare progressive and have advanced civil awareness. Citizens form their socialnorms, collective decisions and common responsibilities through their combinedvoices. They choose their governments according to their own volition through theballot box. Men are born with free will and rationality; we believe that menwill make decisions based on a rational weighing of the benefits to themajority. However, respect and an upholding of rights are also conferred to theminorities as guaranteed under the Constitution, thus ensuring that the socialstability can be assured and upheld. An awareness of the Constitution and its statuesare crucial to the development of civil society, because only one will carry one’sduties well only after clearing understanding one’s rights.

While most democratic countries have upheld theprinciples of democracy, the unpleasant reality is that not all have.Corruption threatens and impinges upon the democratic process, leading to thecollapse of civilized society. Through this letter, we would like to report severaluntoward incidents that have plagued the lead up to the 13thMalaysian General Election.

As of lately, we have observed many foreigners beingimported into Malaysia. These foreigners are enter presumably as workers and areescorted by police officials. The arrivals of these foreigners are have arousedsuspicions as their clothing (shirts and caps) are adorned the logo of BarisanNasional, the current ruling party. Besides that, there are undisputed andaffirmative news reports that these foreigners possess the Malaysian CitizenIdentity Card, which is legally speaking, impossible based on our constitution.Our constitution has strict requirements for immigration applications, and thenormal process takes years for citizenship to be granted. How can these foreignersobtain Malaysian citizenship, just within few days?

Meanwhile, most of these foreigners have been observedto be Bangladeshis, whereby they are employed in Bangladesh and sent toMalaysia for labor purposes. Butunfortunately, these Bangladeshis have obtained Identity Cards illegally and preparingto commit fraud in the voting by supporting Barisan Nasional in the forthcomingGeneral Election. This is contravenes a serious diplomatic taboo under which nocountry is allowed to interfere in another country’s local politics. This is a perversionof a country’s sovereignty and independence. We are requesting international solidarityin condemning these incidents in order to exert pressure on the Commissioner ofGeneral Election to ensure the forthcoming election is cleaner and moretransparent. Our voices are expressed through the petition “Stop your peopleintervene our local politics!” (http://www.causes.com/actions/1749459-stop-your-people-intervene-our-local-politics).Currently more than 15,000 Malaysians have expressed their objection anddissatisfaction through this petition.

Furthermore, the outflow Bangladeshi workers aremanaged by the Ministry ofExpatriates, Welfare and Overseas Employment, which underthe direct purview of the Cabinet of Bangladesh. Therefore, we are making anofficial inquiry to the relevant Ministry with regards to their role, or not,in permitting these workers to be involved in overt political interference. Werequest for a coherent and timely response. Otherwise, we will assume thatCabinet of Bangladesh acquiesces to this incident, and we will request forfurther international action to be taken against the Cabinet of Bangladesh.

We also request a formal response with regards toallegations that the Ministry has received illicit payments from BarisanNasional in order to send such huge numbers of Bangladeshi workers. As acorollary, we also request Transparency International to provide necessaryassistance for further the investigation.

We hope that the Ministry remains alert and aware ofany worker departure approvals since we hope that Bangladeshis do not becomemercenaries become involved in illegal activities that contravene Bangladeshilabor export policy.

Concluding this letter, but not the least, we hope forinternational support to make our Malaysian general election clean and moretransparent through increased vigilance. Eternal vigilance is the price ofliberty.

Thank you.

Regards,
Charissa with concerned Malaysians

2013年4月5日星期五

《少年PI的奇幻漂流》中關於茹素理念的闡述。


在全球熱映的<少年pi的奇幻漂流>這部影片是目前看到商業片中最有教育意義的影片,太棒了! 這個社會太需要這類的電影劇本了,為此,寫了一些觀後感供大眾交流、參考。
(由於本文不是影評,所以關於片中的人物,地名等名稱將採用"簡稱"的方式,目的主要是讓我們的觀點能更準確的傳達給您......)

我們統計了影片中闡述的一些根本觀點,並從不同方面把這些觀點羅列了出來:

1. 素食是動物保護的行為,是愛心的體現,是健康的保證(茹素方面):
PI的媽媽是一位嚴格的素食者,也是一位植物學家 (這一點證明素食者擁有的智慧足以令人可以成為某一方面的佼佼者)

由於PI的媽媽是一位嚴格的素食者,所以PI 是一個胎裡素的嚴格素食者
PI在小時候就被其父親傳授游泳的技能
(說明素食者的體能不是問題)

幼年時期的PI被同學和老師欺負,但善於思考的他用了一個暑假的時間將圓周率 1415926……準確的背誦了整整幾塊黑板的數字……
(這種聰明的程度說明了胎裡素素食者的智慧是超常的) 

17歲,已經長成體重167磅重的肌肉少年了
(從在媽媽肚子裏開始就不曾接觸過肉食的pi ,一點也沒有營養不良)

當pi 無奈的被推入救生艇,在漂流了227天的過程中,他應付風浪,與動物搏鬥等等,pi展現出來的體力和耐力是顯而易見的,是不容回避的話題
(表明:一位胎裡素的素食者體能是不會輸給肉食者的)

在海上漂流時,PI將他的智慧發揮的淋漓盡致,如:學習自救方法、寫災難日記、做逃生筏、學習馴養老虎、織網捕魚、堅決離開食人島等等
(這些都證明了素食者的智慧)

饑餓難耐的老虎游向PI時,已經安全逃到船上的PI,看著在大海中無助的老虎,看著對他的生命構成威脅的老虎,PI沒有選擇將老虎放棄或殺害,他反而讓老虎踩著一片筏子重新回到船上,而PI自己則仍舊返回了他的逃生墊
(影片表明: 素食者有著強烈的動物保護意識,不忍殺害任何動物朋友)

當PI在面臨沒有食物的情況下,他為了他和老虎能夠生存下去,不得不選擇抓捕魚類食用,當PI捕獲一條大魚時,要將這條魚殺死時,PI痛哭流涕,PI的內心是非常複雜的
(作為胎裡素素食者的PI,從小到大從來沒有殺害過動物),
有對自己殺戮行為的懺悔,有對這條魚的感恩,有對信仰的敬畏,又有對現實的無奈……PI 最終選擇用斧頭的背部(而不是用斧刃)結束了這條魚的生命……
(表明: 素食者擁有對待生命的慈悲心和戒殺護生的愛心)

饑餓難耐的PI 和老虎在漂流時遇到了食人島,在艱難爬下船後當即就在地上吃起了草皮,並同時挖出了類似塊莖類的食物食用,而沒有像老虎那樣去吃狐獴
(這說明:大自然用無比豐富的植物食材來滋養著人類的生命,人類根本不需要食用肉類也能夠自然的生存下去)

影片的最後,PI在50多歲時依舊健康,思路清晰的回憶往事,並介紹了他的妻子和2個十幾歲的兒子
(說明:素食者有正常的生育能力,生活和諧,令人羡慕……)

2. PI在孩童時期就選擇了三種宗教作為他的信仰,媽媽也支持他,正因為信仰,可以讓他知道珍惜生命,珍惜生活,懂得感恩!懂得懺悔!

3. 遇到與同學和老師的關係惡化且被欺淩時,小小年紀的PI沒有選擇消極或用暴力去解決問題,影片中的PI發奮學習,睿智的選擇令人折服

4. 從小在動物園長大的pi 懂得動物是他的朋友,人類不應該去傷害動物的道理

5. 在海上漂流的日子裡,斑馬、猴子的死去都令他非常的難過,而他與老虎的接觸則最能讓我們看到他對動物的那種愛,正因為他沒有放棄老虎的生命,這227天裡有了老虎的陪伴,才減少了孤獨恐懼,這是真正的因果法則啊!

6.信仰讓pi 的精神獲得支撐,能夠得以在海上不畏風暴的長期生活,能夠讓pi信心堅定的從食人島上離開,事實證明他是對的

7. 影片中有多處反映出事事無常的觀點: 一家人帶著動物們去加拿大定居的計畫很好,但被一場暴風雨瞬間奪去了爸爸、媽媽和哥哥的生命......還有救生船上的補給品、淡水、食品等等也是瞬間的滅失掉了……在堅持前行中,在最絕望的時候,竟然會遇上物產豐富的小島,絕境中關鍵的物資補給,也是令人備感意外!

8. 當然對孩童時代的pi而言,多多學習知識,學習本領,對一切事物都抱有著好奇心,愛思考,存愛心,常懷求知欲等等,這樣種種的好習慣最終都會回饋在他227天的漂流過程中……

原文網址:suiis素易 討論http://www.suiis.com/forum/Article.asp?no=224401#ixzz2PYVmvlDz

40年後全球吃素!?






40年後全球吃素!?
聯合國的統計指出到2050年全球人口將增至90億,我們對食物的需求只會越來越多,但全球性的水資源缺乏卻不能滿足這龐大的需求。

我們一般每天只需要喝二公升水,但肉食的生產過程卻需要2000-5000公升水,聯合國預測,2025年全球會有18億人活在絕對缺水的環境,另有三分之二人活在用水緊張的地方。

沒有水,哪來食物?有見及此,聯合國就把今年國際水資源日的主題訂為「水與糧食安全」,點出了未來糧食因水資源缺乏而短缺的問題。

瑞典的科學家指出,要解決糧食問題,必須要先解決水資源問題,除了節約用水外,更要多選擇低耗水的食物,否則40年後就要全球吃素才能滿足糧食的需求。

當今全世界的用水有70%都是用在農業,其中有超過三分之一的水資源用作種植飼料,去餵飼動物給人類食用,故生產肉類的用水遠高於蔬菜,像生產一公斤牛肉用水量是一公斤穀物至少十倍。

人類耗費大量資源在肉食生產上,直接吃走地球越來越缺少的資源,糧食和水源短缺問題根本就迫在眉睫。

Green Monday主張大家每周一天素食,不止是生活喜好的轉變,而是切實有這樣的必要。其實大熊貓原來三百萬年前也是吃肉的動物,但隨著棲息環境的轉變,牠們也棄紅go green,以竹維生,變成今天深綠的素食動物。

適者生存,從來都是大自然的規律,人類再因為長期口腹之慾而耗費地球的資源,總會有一天要負上沉重的代價。

為健康為環境,
今天星期一讓我們一起Green Monday吧!!